There is part of us that wants to think we are just SO unique. Am I right? And I will be the first to say that in some ways I fully believe we are. BUT. Yes, BUT, here’s the funny thing: We are also all so weird, and in THAT we are similar! We all have weirdness lurking in the shadows. Sometimes we hear about weird ancestry stories where great aunt so-and-so always wandered down the road when it rained looking for her long lost love. (ok, maybe that’s a little dramatic). But it seems more common than not that each family has the mysterious stories intertwined with weirdness. Maybe your families’ story will be about you 😉
I was thinking about how weird I seem today. I’m nibbling on oatmeal for the 3rd time because I am in some kind of Mast Cell flare-up. And I know not a ton of people know how precarious it is to not know exactly what might trigger a full-on anaphylaxis episode (a smell, a molecule, a bite). Again, I (in my weird state) take my “concotions” (Restore and quercetin, black seed cumin oil, DAO enzymes…) -you get the drift. Weird supplement stuff. Weird needs. But if I took a few minutes to chat with you, I can almost guarantee that you have something hidden behind your “normal smile”. You have some weird thing, idiosyncrasy, crazy thought. intuition. fear. dream. Don’t you? I see you thinking about that. You know you’re weird. hahaha
I think we should just let that be ok. Talk about the fact
that you like to touch trees when you walk past them
or need 2 more hours of sleep than most (it’s a real thing)
or can’t stand socks on in bed
or like to twirl your hair when you think
or take supplements for things people don’t even know exist
or randomly take detours on back roads (dirt roads, preferably)
or eat each food group one at a time on your plate, never mixing
or love to look for shark’s teeth
or never drink your drink until your dinner is done
or if you could, you’d always eat dessert and skip dinner
or that you think maybe spirits already teleport and our bodies are trying to figure out how to catch up
or maybe you talk to people (from your mind to theirs) really believing that they “hear” you
or you can’t swallow a pill
or you are convinced that God allows your ancestors to look down and smile on you
or that “sunshine beach cravings” are real needs like pickles and ice cream (no pregnancy required)
or
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In some ways, all of the weirdness bonds us together in similarity, doesn’t it?
Embrace your weird. You’re in good company.